Baby name dilemma..?

My best friend has three children. I love one of her girls names and the boys name and am considering their names for my baby. Should their names be off bounds? Should I just choose one? Or could I name my daughter and son what I like.


I'm also concerned for the feelings of her other daughter. I was thinking of maybe using her name as a middle name so she doesn't feel left out... Please tell me what you think..what you would do.... this is just killing me. Thanks.

Baby name dilemma..?
I would take it safe and try something completely new, for yourself. It would be an awful thing to have hurt feelings over, and have your child grow up with that name as a constant reminder to the pain of the past. Honestly, there are MANY good baby names out there! You just have to know where to look! I'm sure you'll find more that you love and enjoy!


Spend a bit of time cruising. :)


www.babynamesworld.com
Reply:My name is Whitney. I hate my name though, so I'm pretty sure you wouldn't like it, either.





Here's some names for boys / girls:





Lynea(girl)


Thomas(boy)


Cassie(girl)


Cassidy(girl)


Whitney(girl)


Krissy(girl)


Kesli (kesly)(girl)


Reese(boy / girl)


Drew (dru)(boy / girl)


John (jon)(boy)


Lily (lilly)(girl)


Delilah (girl)





They're no the best, but I can't think of too many right now. Go to some sites and look for some.
Reply:I would talk to my fren(the mother of the kids that have the names u like) she will either be flattered or cranky. It is ur baby and u have the right to name it any name that you please but personally i wouldnt like someone naming their child after mine. I remember when my sis in law was preg n told us that they were guna be callin their son Domitri i was not happy(my son's name is Dominic) n i thought that one Dom in the family was enough and i eventually discussed it with my sons father and he suggested that instead of Domitri how bout Dimitri so they were diff names altogether. That worked for us now we have a Dom N Dim in the fam lol...


Anyways point being that honesty is the best go... either way sooner or later ur fren is gunna find out if u name ur bub after her kids, so y not prepare her for it or find out her feelings...


Good Luck...
Reply:Personally, I wouldn't name my child the same name as my best friend's child/children. It would be way too confusing. Maybe you could use her girl and or boy name just as a middle name. If you are really that stuck on it, I would as her how she would feel about it. Some people have real issues with others "stealing" their names.


Good luck with your decision!
Reply:My friend named her baby Sierra... It is my middle daughters first name as well.


I have another friend and we are considering Cheyanne for a girls name. Its the name of her youngest girl.


Where there is no blood relation... I wouldn't feel bad about using the same name. Ask her what she would think if you used the same name as one of her children.
Reply:Ask you best friend if she thinks it would be okay if you used her daughter's name. If she is uncomfortable with it, then you can still name you child what ever you want...if you loose her friendship over it..then she wasn't worth your time to begin with. Good luck on your baby name search.
Reply:You should just name the baby what you want to name it , you have to go through all the drama. You should be able to name the baby whatever you want.As long as the name is pretty %26amp; you like /love it then that's just awesome.TAKE CARE HOPE YOU LIKE THE ADVICE!
Reply:I would name the baby what I wanted. Friends disappear your child will always be there. I did not name my son the way I wanted for a similar reason, now I don't even know where that person is. 12 years latter I still think about it and wish I would have made a different decision.
Reply:Why would you want to name one of your kids the same name as your friend's kids????? I don't think you should . More popular names are


*Emily


*Hannah


*Sarah





But some more unique names are


*Summer


*Aleena


*Micayla


(I think I spelled the last one right!)





I hope I helped
Reply:i would say using a friends childrens names is a no-no. you dont wanna have to deal with her getting upset. i would be extemely hurt if my best friend used my childrens names
Reply:You can name your child whatever you like. No name is off limits.
Reply:it's your baby....you choose whatever you want....i am sure your friend won't mind. it's a nice thought using the other girl's name so that she won't be upset...hopefully it goes with the first name!
Reply:i like the names Erin, Lousie, or Marie for a girl and Alex, Leo or Scott for a boy
Reply:Its your baby, the name doesnt belong to your friend.
Reply:I personally didnt want either of my kids to have the same name as anyone I was related to or knew.
Reply:BE CREATIVE
Reply:i think you should give your baby their own unique name there are so many out there and if i were your friend i would be sooo mad
Reply:Name what you like !!
Reply:I would say if the kids are going to be together a lot you should come up with your own names.
Reply:Name your kid what ever you want!
Reply:Name your baby the name that you like the most.
Reply:I think it'd be rude to use the name she had selected for her kids. I'd ask her about it.
Reply:name it cartman or jose or jesus